Friday, November 26, 2010

Take a Ride On a Purple Airplane

Day 03 – Your views on drugs and alcohol.



The word "drugs" can be used in various context. The following definition is the kind of Drugs that i will be talking about.

Drugs that are used for personal pleasure (often illegally) are called Recreational Drugs. Traditional RD's include marijuana, alcohol (Yes, it is a drug), MDMA (ecstasy), mushrooms, LSD, methamphetamine, heroin, crack/cocaine. Recreational drugs come under many criticisms, and praise by opponents, and users alike. Some believe the use of RD's to be immoral, and life-threatening, while others believe that new and thoughtful insights can come from drug use (especially psychedelics like mushrooms, and LSD)

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=drugs

I am going to try and not turn this into a lecture of any sort. Recreational drugs don't help you period. It doesn't make problems go away nor does it help you physically get better. Truth be told, I had my share of drugs when I was younger (early teens). It was simply out of curiosity but never ventured deep. That, I need to thank my parents. If it wasn't for all their hard work and sacrifice, I probably would've just run wild and jump off the deep end. By God's grace my stupid mind understood that my parents didn't spend so much money and have to spend half a year apart so i can do drugs. Anyhow, I had a lot of friends who uses recreational drugs o a fairly regular basis. Some out of boredom, some out of fear and frustration in life. I've come to realize that drugs are band-aid solutions that people use to deal with life's disappointment. Thus drugs are chemically and emotionally addictive in nature. It is so appealing when you are facing hardship and something comes along to release you from that feeling.

Once you are chemically or emotionally dependent on a substance, it takes more work to get off it than to get into it. There are many things in this world that offers cheap and temporal hope like drugs. They appear to function like a solution but the consequences are usually fatal. I had a friend who did not find that out until 5 years into it. He developed various physical symptoms and only in his 20's he told me that he could see his body failing him. What damaged him the most was the harsh truth that this chemical only took time away from him to face his problems.

The problem is not drugs but LIFE.

Life throws crap at us daily. I remember taking my first job at the dollar store. My manager told me, "Daniel, you know what this job is about? is about taking crap from people." yikes. I found that to be true. We live in a highly disappointing world filled with exploitation (like the Olympics but I m not gonna talk about that now) abuse, and lies. We dream dreams only to have them crushed by reality. Injustice is everywhere. Funny that in the western society we tried to fool ourselves thinking that we are more enlightened and with more education we are able to live better lives.

The Bible, on the other hand, paints our true nature. Looking at the problems of the peoples back in the day would only reveal to us that we are really no different.
in 740 B.C. God pronounces His judgement on Israel, God's people. In Isaiah 59, God tells them their problem:
7 Their feet rush into sin;
they are swift to shed innocent blood.
They pursue evil schemes;
acts of violence mark their ways.
8 The way of peace they do not know;
there is no justice in their paths.
They have turned them into crooked roads;
no one who walks along them will know peace.
9 So justice is far from us,
and righteousness does not reach us.
We look for light, but all is darkness;
for brightness, but we walk in deep shadows.
10 Like the blind we grope along the wall,
feeling our way like people without eyes.
At midday we stumble as if it were twilight;
among the strong, we are like the dead.
11 We all growl like bears;
we moan mournfully like doves.
We look for justice, but find none;
for deliverance, but it is far away.

I am not a scholar or an expert on world events but give me 20 minutes on the news and I can point out to you that we are no different from the Israelites back in the 700 B.C.

Going back to my point, I think drugs take us away from facing what is going on in our life and in our heart. We need true rescue and not substance abuse. We need true support from people, each other, instead of support from chemicals. Nor do I think that we should shun those who are dependent on drugs. In fact the opposite, we ought to help them discover what is truly bothering them and point them to true hope. A hope that would not fade.

A lot of people asks this question, if I take drug am I a bad Christian or does that mean I am going to hell? There is always two camps who ask this question. The guilty conservatives and the shameless liberals. Guilty conservatives may operate on a work base salvation system. Do good things go to heaven, and bad things lead you to hell. Well this is obviously false because only by the grace of God that anyone is saved( Ephesians 2:8). Then the shameless liberals jump out and say "HA! that means I can do whatever I want which includes drugs and alcohol."

Here is what God has to say about it through Paul, a first hand witness of Jesus.
"Everything is permissible for me"--but not everything is beneficial. "Everything is permissible for me"--but I will not be mastered by anything(1 Corinthians 6:12 NIV). The principle here is that why do you want to be a slave to things that can screw you over and bring you back to despair? Put your trust in the real solution in life and God will not fail you. I have faced some hardship, tragedies, and disappointments in life. I definitely, at one point, thought about using chemicals to help me deal with it and have tried. It made things worse, and not the other way around. However, when I decided to surrender my life under new management of Christ, things didn't get better! Yet, I can handle them better. God gives the the courage I need, the support that I don't have within myself, the people around me who love me, and the love and comfort that I need in the situation.

I don't think anyone is beyond hope if they are currently on recreational drugs. But I do think that there is something in their lives that they need to deal with. Yes, even boredom is a symptom that something is wrong. I don't think drinking alcohol is a sin. Jesus drank wine! But I sure don't like the taste of it and the calories that comes with alcohol. I find pop more satisfying which saves me a lot of money. In the case of alcohol, just as long as I am not surrendering my control to a substance and leading others astray from know God then I am ok.

For my gr.3 boys at St.John's Richmond, I am still going to tell them not to do drugs =) Cuz they will benefit from that.

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Next stop...10 years from now



Day 02 – Where you’d like to be in 10 years.

This is the 30 day blog challenge and I am still going strong. Where would I like to be in 10 years?

Well I am 23 at the moment so when I am 33 here is what I hope to happen:

-Graduated from Seminary
-Doing a job that I like: full time work at a church
-Married
-1-2 kids
-I would love to still be in Vancouver, but things can change
-Own a house with acceptable mortgage
-have a dog (optional) and a lizard

I guess I can see myself being in a more stable lifestyle in 10 years: not moving around and stay at one place. I would like to see myself grow both emotionally and spiritually. Not physically because research shows that your body starts to decay after 20- all down hill from there! I want to know God more, know what it means to love him. To be more like Christ, the perfect example to be a son of God. I hope I don't become a bitter person and continue to take risks for God.

Relationships with people matter to me so I would love to meet more people along the way and develop meaningful friendships. I also notice that I like many things but I am not passionate about any. I like guitar, but I am not playing it like 24/7. There are many things I enjoy but I am not CRAZY about. Similar to the work I am involved with at Church. I like working as an intern, preaching, working along side people, teaching, and encouraging. However, I don't really know what I LOVE and what I am gifted at. I am hoping that through time, I will be realistic and critical about who I am and what I am going to invest my time in.

Similarly, on another note, 10 years later I would love to see my friends still persevering in the faith and find their passions so they may enjoy the challenges and the joys at different stages of life.

That's it for day 2

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Day 01- (Romantic) Relationship

Day 01 – Your current relationship, if single discuss how single life is.



First off, I love de-motivational posters. I wanted to find some interesting pictures for this post on google image search and this was the first thing that caught my eye.

Alright, let me get to the important stuff: my current relationship.
I am happily dating a very wonderful/special/terrific/exceptional/beautiful/.../amazing woman at the moment. In other words, I am no longer available to the dating market. Due to a short supply of, namely me, an economist would point out that the demand, for me, will be higher. (yeah right...)
Mel and I have been dating for 1 year, 10 months, 9 days. To save you some trouble, it has been 678 days. I can't believe someone would choose to put up with me for that long! I guess she is a keeper.

Our relationship has taken a big turn since September this year. Instead of going to Nebraska, God has graciously opened the door for mel to U of A to study Occupational Therapy. I, on the other hand, am still in the great Vancity enjoying what it has to offer: authentic Japanese, Chinese, Greek, seafood, home cooked meal and a JOB. We have lost each other's physical presence and are now physically separated from each other.

Long distance relationship suck. If a person tells you that long D has done wonders for them, I bet you $100 that this person is no longer in a long distance relationship. *I am not promoting betting so don't ask me for money if you experience some rare case or met some lunatics. In short, take my word for it. LONG D sucks. Skype sucks. Sometimes I would have to say the same sentence 5-6 times or I would have to ask mel to repeat the same sentence.

Communication is tough when you have to keep repeating yourself and you only have 1 hour. Some days I felt very frustrated because we can't even get pass the day to day stuff and have a nice conversation. Your entire interaction with the other person is confined by a display box in front of you. You can't hug her or put your arm around her when she is upset. You feel powerless but panic on the other end of the screen. I hate that feeling...

I suppose I should also mention the "positive" side to this Long D. I am learning about what it's like to miss someone. Actually missing someone who you care about a lot and cannot see for an extended period of time. I think in this trial, mel and I are forced to trust each other and to trust God. We are learning how to support one another without the physical presence. We are learning to deal with conflict in a setting where exiting is just one button away.

Like any relationships, short D or long D, there is bound to be friction. So, I am being challenged to really listen and to admit mistakes. (I think it's the same thing for mel) The greatest thing about being a follower of Jesus is that he cares about my relationship. He knows that we screw up and we will abuse each other because we are selfish. A hard truth to swallow is that when I don't honor mel and wrongs her, I am also offending God. However, at the end of the day,I have assurance that I am forgiven, mel has been showing me a lot of grace in the process, and I can depend on Christ to change. A relationship is most rewarding when God is in the center to lead and the couple is obedient to God while forgiving each other.

With God's help, we are learning to see past the pixels in front of us and truly care for the the person on the other side.

Do I like long distance? of course not. But I love sharing my life, my day, my dreams with this special girl. I am knowing her more and more and I am proud to be in this relationship.

To quote Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 (NIV)

9 Two are better than one,
because they have a good return for their labor:
10 If either of them falls down,
one can help the other up.
But pity anyone who falls
and has no one to help them up.
11 Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm.
But how can one keep warm alone?
12 Though one may be overpowered,
two can defend themselves.
A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.


NO, we are not lying down together

But Mel are I are partners in the mission to carry one another and to sharing the best news from God to the entire world!

It's time to step up to the challenge!

I've been telling myself that I need to be more introspective.
I've been telling myself that I need to write more.
I've told Mel one year ago that I would start blogging but I haven't been.
I've told Hansen that I want to start the 30 day challenge.... so.. I am going to do it!

It's almost Dec and I believe it's a good time to reflect about my life:Who I was and Who am I now?

Shout out to Hansen who started this and is 7 days in =)

Here is the provided list

Day 01 – Your current relationship, if single discuss how single life is.
Day 02 – Where you’d like to be in 10 years.
Day 03 – Your views on drugs and alcohol.
Day 04 – Your views on religion.
Day 05 – A time you thought about ending your own life.
Day 06 – Write 30 interesting facts about yourself.
Day 07 – Your Myers Briggs Personality Type and if you think it fits your personality.
Day 08 – A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life.
Day 09 – How you hope your future will be like.
Day 10 – Discuss your first love.
Day 11 – Put your ipod on shuffle and write 10 songs that pop up.
Day 12 – Bullet your whole day.
Day 13 – Somewhere you’d like to move or visit.
Day 14 – Your earliest memory.
Day 15 – Your favorite blogs.
Day 16 – Your views on mainstream music.
Day 17 – Your highs and lows of this past year.
Day 18 – Your beliefs.
Day 19 – Disrespecting your parents.
Day 20 – How important you think education is.
Day 21 – One of your favorite shows.
Day 22 – How have you changed in the past 2 years?
Day 23 – Give pictures of 5 girls who are famous who you find attractive.
Day 24 – Your favorite movie and what it’s about.
Day 25 – Someone who fascinates you and why.
Day 26 – What kind of person attracts you.
Day 27 – A problem that you have had.
Day 28 – Something that you miss.
Day 29 – Goals for the next 30 days.
Day 30 – Your highs and lows of this month.

Estimated Time to complete the challenge: DEC.23.2010.
Maybe Santa will give me a "good boy" status if I finish this =)

Here we go, Day 1...

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Absolute surrender

"O God, my failure is all my self-confidence, self-will, self-pleasing."

Andrew Murray- Absolute surrender

Monday, December 21, 2009

In search of Real Christmas

TV commercials show you all the expensive gadgets, fashionable jewelries, fancy toys, mouth watering candies, and many more that will ensure the Spirit of Christmas.

Radio stations tell you the fastest way get your shopping done and what gifts are "IN".

The phrase "celebrating the true meaning of Christmas" are now cliche for every other commercial advertisement.

Going to Church on Christmas is just another form of entertainment no different watching Christmas Carol in the theater.

What does Christmas have to do with each of us individually?

Because of the Birth of Christ.. the following is now made available
Galatians 2:20

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Blogs and technology

“I’m amazed at the amount of time people spend on the internet. I’m not against technology, but all tools should be used to their best advantage. We should be spending our time on things that have staying power, instead of on the latest thought of the latest blogger—and then moving on quickly to the next blogger. That makes us more superficial, not more thoughtful.”

—J.I. Packer, in World Magazine